What is an everyday system?
An everyday system, TM, is a simple, commonsense solution to an
everyday problem, grounded by a pun or metaphor.
What is an everyday problem?
A common, personal problem that is amenable to self-discipline.
I know my problem, where's the system?
In this convenient problem index.
What is the relationship between the systems?
The systems are independent but compatible. I do all of them. But
you don't have to. Pick and choose just the ones you like.
Are there any guiding principles shared by all the systems?
Yes. Here they are:
- Striking Image. As mentioned above, each system is grounded
by a striking image, pun, or metaphor.
- No keeping track of things. None of the systems require you
to keep track of anything beyond the day of the week, what planet you
are on, etc. You have too many things to keep track of already. New: since even this level of tracking can be pain,
I've developed a free online habit tracker to
help.
- Small temporal footprint. They are designed to be minimally
intrusive, timewise. Ideally, the systems should free up time, not
take more of it. The above point helps a lot with this. It also
doesn't hurt that it will take you ten minutes or less to read and
understand each system.
- Free or cheap. If you need anything at all, it's nothing
you can't pick up at your local hardware store.
- Simple but specific. Common sense is great, but too vague
to be a practical guide. Commercial self help systems need to fill 300
page books with something, and are thus of necessity too
complicated to be effective. Everyday systems are the happy
medium.
- Comic pragmatism. Self help tends to take itself dreadfully
seriously, I guess in the hope that other people will. But crazy is a
great mnemonic device. If something is a little nuts, you'll remember
it. I call this the principle of comic pragmatism. It's a joke, but
it's also serious. It's effective because it's a joke.
- Focus on willpower and habit. Unfashionable as it may be
nowadays, you've got to wake up to the fact that you have free
will. That's step one. Step two is figuring out how to leverage your
free (but weak) will against the 800 pound mega-gorilla, habit. Yes,
this means tricks. But no trick is going to help you unless you
recognize these two key players.
- Enjoyable. They aren't just unpleasant grinds towards a
distant goal. Maybe you wouldn't do them solely for pleasure,
but you can do them also for pleasure. And when the goal is
distant and doubtful, or boring because already (temporarily)
attained, that makes all the difference.
I encourage you to come up with your own systems. It's fun, and
there's nothing like founder's zeal to get you motivated. Let me know if you
do.
How can I connect with other everyday systems practioners?
Visit the bulletin board.
There is also an archive of older posts
from the previous bulletin board system.
So what's next?
I've got several more systems in the oven, but it may be another
age and a half before I'm sufficiently satisfied with them to give
them their own web sites. Until then, you can examine their progress
or lack thereof at the everyday systems lab.
Does it cost money to run these sites?
Yes! If you like any or all of these sites, help me pay for
them. Buy
anything from amazon.com through this link, I get a tiny cut, and
you don't pay anything extra.
Random Links to friends' sites
Oh, how unprofessional. But it's one of those things you can still
get away with when your own site is running out of your basement.
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