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Hi all, I was thinking about Reinhards response to me about making little "tweaks" which will *stick* rather than huge gestures which won't. Yes it's kindof cool to be able to look at yourself in the reflection and say, occasionally, "Wow I can't believe I did such an amazing thing" regarding big accomplishments, but hey it's not always possible to do these big feats...Stuff like running the NY Marathon, Climbing Mount Everest pop into my mind. Believe me I would be bragging until I had no friends left, if I could do either LOL :) Lately I am trying to "catch myself in the act" of almost breaking a rule, or just finding a new way to cut down on calories, or increase activity.. Anything sustainable, which, over time, will make me a winner (sorry for the black and white win/lose metaphor, I just think it's a good mindset for inspirational purposes) Okay so here's my "system/invention", which still needs some distilling. It's called the "Tweak-O'Meter", and I am going to use either the Human Foot, or the Modern Automobile as a kind of metaphor for "making advances towards success"... We all know about a Pedometer, and on a car a "Tripometer" well the "Tweak O'meter" is a little microchip in your mind which keeps track of all the little positive "Tweaks" you make throughout your day. Today I found myself tossing out a half a container (condiment sized) of BBQ sauce, which I put on my steak for lunch...When I dumped it in the garbage, I found myself saying, out loud, "Tweak" you know like a bird cheeping or something.. I then laughed... That little triumph of control really made me feel great. Sure it's only 20 calories, but if I do that 3 or 4 times a day, in some form or another, it will add up to lots by the end of the week/month/year/life... I didn't enjoy my lunch any less, infact I enjoyed it more because I had enough to satisfy my tastebuds and that was that... Okay this is as far as I have developed this "system" or technique. The idea is that we become our own day- to-day cheering section...Catching ourselves in the "act" of doing something good! Then saying "tweak" in a humorous way, and then mentally clicking our "tweakometer" to register our forward momentum and, for a lack of a better word, progress...This simple word serves as a way of saying "one more everyday triumph for me!" Basically anything we do which is proactive, either on a larger or miniscule level, can receive a click on the Tweak-O'meter... People who would rather have a more monetary metaphor, may wish to substitute the pedometer/odometer with an old style cash register, and when you do something you are proud of, you say the little '90's Ode to capitalism, "Cha ching" :) I remember when Diane wrote about throwing away a cookie that wasn't really worth eating, instead of just putting it away and onto the hips.. This would definitely receive a click on the "Tweak-O'meter". Well hope my idea made you laugh and I hope you all give it a try :) Congratulate yourself for even reading this! You get a "tweak" from me! Let me know if you come up with some other "system requirements" or improvements. Peace and Love, Debbie "Tweak!" |
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