Everyday Systems

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It sure is! I sometimes share no-S in conversations about weightloss and it's funny how differently people react. Some have a "gotcha" moment, it makes sense for them and some are horrified, haha.

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It's really great that you found out a planned snack would help you that much! I always like to read about other peoples mods.

I think the key is to NOT feel deprived, and if that means no-S + a small snack, then great!

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I call that a win too! Small baby steps, it's important!

Do you also feel like you can't trust your hunger and fullness cues anymore after dieting for such a long time?

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I messed up thursday evening (of course after I just posted how well it's going :x) by forgetting an insulin dose, it completely derailed my blood glucose. It was very high the whole night, so I felt awful in the morning. It was a fun day though, because went shopping with my parents and enjoyed a l...

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Sammy, it definitely is! The plan does sound pretty similar to yours! :D Amy, thank you as always for your support! :D I really hope my motivation stays strong. Day 4 of my new plan, and I finally feel like the number on the scale is starting to go down. My blood sugars are soo stable, and that make...

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Wow, the job offer in Paris sounds exciting!

Do you always have a planned snack or just sometimes?

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That smoothy sounds so good! Sounds like you are doing pretty well! Do you have like a limit of what you can eat per meal or do you just eat until full?

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Well, I’ve followed No-S successfully for almost 47 days, and if it weren’t for my type 1 diabetes I would have kept going. Unfortunately, the S-days still trigger an all-or-nothing response in me, which makes me eat too much in one go. It’s incredibly difficult to keep my blood sugars under control...

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Amy, sleep is definitely so important! I really admire your persistence in making it work! And I completely get what you mean about exercise—it feels so satisfying to check it off the to-do list, haha.

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Amy, thank you so much for your reply—it’s incredibly helpful. I honestly don’t have a better alternative at the moment. Yesterday, though, my blood sugars were all over the place during my S-day, and it made me question this way of eating again. It feels so doable and sustainable, yet my blood suga...

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Well, it's not going great. I am going to te gym for 2 months now, and nothing changed, at first I thought my jeans fitted better, but it's not, I didn't lose any cm's. My weight is heavier than ever, and I am just at a loss. I changed no-S again from 2 S-days to 1 and I am still not losing weight. ...

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Sounds like you enjoyed it to the max! And I get it, it's a challenge to get back to the normal routine after, but you are doing great!

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Soprano, thank you! Amy, Thanks. It does feel like this is my new way of eating. I think I've build a great foundation over the years with mods, but even though they didn't work out it did give me a good no-S training haha. So yesterday was a pretty excessive S-day and I felt so full that I didn't h...

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Amy, how was the staycation?

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Unfortunately we can't help you other than suporting you from here. Did you contact your therapist and/or dietician?

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Hang in there, Pink! Stress and busy times ... pff... Hope you feel better soon!

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Soprano, thank you! I think I need to make my N-days a little stricter, or actually more healthy. I might try that before making any changes. I wonder how much time is enough to give vanilla no-S a chance. My S-days are sometimes okay-ish, but mostly they are "being an idiot". Amy, thanks for the su...

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Sending some digital support to you! It's really hard to not binge when you are under a lot of stress. I can totally relate to everything you say. It feels impossible to find that balance between weightloss and not feeling deprived.

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Well, I’ve been doing vanilla No-S for 30 days now, and my weight just keeps going up. :( Of course, I’m also working out, and I know that muscle weighs more than fat, but I feel awful. Vanilla No-S feels so good, I really don’t want to give it up. But what should I do? I’m really thrown off by this...

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Thanks, Amy, you are right, it does weigh down on me. But I feel like my blood sugars are better to manage now that I am more active. So that's also good for me mentally! :D Sammy, thank you! I am actually excited to start! Good to hear it works so well for you! It’s day 24 of my “not-so-new-vanilla...

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I also have to remind myself to take supplements (I have a regular B12 deficiency).

Have an amazing time at your niece’s wedding!

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Do you allow more carbs on the weekend?

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The scale can be so demotivating, but sticking to your plan is important. Building new habits takes time.

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Yeeh, for the green day! I can imagine it was a lot of fun to hve them over, but also exhausting haha. Enjoy your staycation!

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Wonderful news, Auto!

And congrats, 4 months is really something to be proud of!

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Thanks all! :) Auto, haha, you made me laugh. :D But yes, he is definitely making some remarks about my gym progress. It''s motivating! Yesterday we had a family dinner at an all-you-can-eat sushi restaurant. I used to worry a lot about dinners like this, but I felt super excited! The food was great...

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That was such a huge victory, pink! You must be proud! I knew exactly how you felt! I also like to pre plan my food! We order our groceries and have them delivered. I think that really helps to avoid buying all sorts of tasty but unnecessary things on impulse.

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Sounds like a good plan! I know it's tough, but it will be so worth it!

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Well done! Sometimes that feeling of being strong tastes even better than the actual muffin.

Makes me think of a cookie I had put in the freezer and I totally forgot about it...

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Nice to hear you enjoying your walks!

I have a small dog, and she isn't much of a walker haha. When she has had enough, she turns on the brakes and gives me that look....

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I love "make your own wrap" type of dinners!

Sounds like you all are enjoying your time together!

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Thanks for the birthday wishes! :D Soprano and Amy: Thanks for that! The thing is... my S-days never calmed down. So that's why I worry about this. But you are both right that the S-days should be rule free. I felt so good mentally last weekend to feel free. No restrictions, nothing. I lost just a t...

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Thanks all! Yesterday was an S-day because it was my birthday. But wow, I didn’t feel great. I skipped breakfast because I was going to have cake with my coworkers, and then at lunch, one of them surprised me with something tasty—but it was so heavy. There was still some cake left, and since it was ...

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Oh, nice to have some time off work! And yoga sounds good! Do you have any more plans made for those two weeks?

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Thanks, Amy! And you are right about that! Phew, it’s a strange day today. Green, but effortless. I expected to be really hungry, but it actually wasn’t that bad. I went to the gym after work, and when I got home, Mr. Ellis had stir-fried vegetables with rice ready but I just couldn’t eat it. I rare...

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I'm happy to report that I had a fully green week, and today I was an idiot—but a happy idiot, and no shame! :D It was honestly delightful. I'll list what I ate; it's ridiculous, but hey, maybe someone following my topic will feel a bit less bad about their own S-days. I started the day with cake an...

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Yeeh for your green day! The meals sound delicious!

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Yeeh, for the green days! Love your approach about being vegan; consistency instead of perfection. I am the same when it comes to being vegetarian. Doing the best you can is great!

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Bookclub sounds fun! I really should check if there is one in my neighboorhood. Although I have a hard time to finish any book lately.

Ugh, i love desserts too. They say the body has like a comfort weight range right? I think mine is around 143 lbs.

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I used to love reading as well, but for some reason can't find the motivation to finish any book. Do you think you get hyperfocused easily?

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I love that you call it your happy place. Gym doesn't feel like my happy place YET but I hope I will eventually. I do feel proud everytime I go.

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Thanks, Soprano! Good to hear Pink, I just feel like celebrating friday haha. Amy, let’s do this! Just focus on green days. I’ve had 3 green days so far — easier than I expected! Workouts went well too. I think I need more protein, though. I’ve been sleeping more this week, which is good. The scale ...

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Fitting into your clothes is definitely a win!

12 pm: a few handfuls of animal crackers as I recovered from taking my 16 year old driving. She is doing great but I am still shaking from the adrenaline every time I get out of the car.

I can imagine this, haha.

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Ugh, so sorry to hear you had a stressful week! But the one plate habit is really good! Most people gain because of too large portions or getting seconds, so sticking to just one plate is really great!

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Wow, Linda, 2 hours of pilates is impressive! :D So sorry to hear about your friend, seems like you really needed your space! The WL meds I notice make it so I just want what I want and I can’t eat anything else (in that moment). Interesting! And that must feel amazing! I have to admit, no-S basical...

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Such good advice from everyone. I also am very mean to myself, which is ridiculous because we wouldn't be if a friend would struggle with the same. Anyways, let's just keep on tracking the days, don't punish ourselves over a red day and enjoy this sane and peaceful way of eating!

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Soprano, thanks a bunch! You are so right, I get so anxious about it. It IS for life, diet brain is pretty annoying.

We had lunch and icecream today, and I will mark my friday red. I try to let go of the guilt and I am actually excited to start monday again with a green day!

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Okay, I’m really struggling right now, guys! It started off so well on Friday, I had to go to the hospital for a blood test and a foot check for my diabetes. And good news: no signs of neuropathy in my feet! Phew, what a relief. I had to be fasting for the blood test and I had thoughtfully brought m...

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I’m really proud of myself! :D I had a kind of non-scale victory. My colleague had gotten me two big cookies. I had low blood sugar, so I was debating whether to have a little piece. But I didn't and just took my dextrose tablets like I should. Sometimes I try to take advantage of low blood sugars, ...

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Ugh, I totally understand your struggles. I've gained weight again too, and I'm so tired of battling with this.
I just want to be free from the obsession and feel normal, and No-S is the only diet/lifestyle that has ever given me that.

Let’s get back to it together!

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I'm still not sure. Weighing myself every day makes me obsessive and nervous. But weighing weekly might give me a distorted picture — and then I get upset if I haven't lost any weight. Weighing monthly sounds lovely, but I'm really scared I might gain for a whole month and then get a nasty surprise ...

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Your motivations are really good! We recently went on vacation to Portugal, and I was wearing my favorite skirt when I noticed that my inner thighs were rubbing together, to the point where it got uncomfortable. I also noticed that my belly gets in the way when I'm driving, and my clothes are starti...

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Thanks everyone for thinking along with me! :D Amy , that’s a really good strategy! I also struggle with the “what the hell” effect, and it can really ruin your day. Today went well! Well, I ate more than I had planned, but still stayed within the No-S rules. I use an app to track carbs for my insul...

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Yay, your first green day is done! On to the next one!
I also found it really hard to get through the day during the first few weeks, I had a whole bunch of red days.
But it gets better and better, and hopefully your stomach will get used to it soon, like mine did.

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Ipearlmom: So great that you’re doing Pilates! And it’s so important to remember, it doesn’t matter what you do, even if it’s just a little bit. I think the key is to look at your energy level and adjust accordingly. :D Update: Today I was really stuck in my head. Diet hopping feels like a curse th...

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Oof, I’m sorry you’re struggling with family relationships. Unfortunately, I’m no stranger to that either, I cut ties with a certain family member years ago. I always felt like I had to walk on eggshells around her. You’d think it was a nice family day, and then suddenly she’d start throwing accusat...

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I totally get it. Counting calories can be so triggering, and moderation is really hard! I used to be so afraid of feeling hungry too, but somehow my stomach seems to shrunk from eating smaller meals over a longer period of time. I honestly can’t eat as much as I used to. But it’s still a tricky pro...

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Auto: how interesting that you teach physiology related to type 1! You're absolutely right — it really doesn’t feel fair. But luckily, it gives me an extra push to put my health first. Sometimes it feels like I’m on the edge of burnout, but I can’t take a break. Just keep going. Oh, and walking is ...

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I had a big grin on my face while reading about your Petsmart description. Might be a good idea to get them neutered too, they seem very fertile… just kidding, haha! :P By the way, I have a Fitbit and I love it! I went for a really slim one (didn’t want a big heavy thing on my wrist), and it’s super...

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You're definitely not alone about that haha,

And it's totally understandable that you need some time to yourself. It sounds pretty draining. Glad to hear the medication seems to be working!

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I also have to commit to another way of eating instead of no-S but it's so nice to be able to share it here. Don't be too hard on yourself, step by step!

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Welcome back! What exactly happened with your last calorie system? You really seemed to have lost quite a bit with it, if I remember your update correctly. What do you think went wrong this time? I totally relate though — as you know from our chats on Messenger, I’ve also been hopping from one diet ...

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Amy, thanks! A wedding is definitely one of those events where your diet brain can take over and lead to drastic choices. Stay mindful and approach it with care! Auto, did you manage to develop your routine? Funny that you mention sleep, I'm completely wiped out after my gym sessions! I seriously ju...

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Welcome back! It’s great that you caught things early and are already making progress again!

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This sounds like such an insightful breakthrough! Figuring out what actually works for you without making life harder.

Love how you turned the Bugles into part of a balanced meal, I have devoured a whole bag of them as my lunch before with some garlic cream cheese.

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Sounds like a hectic day, but you're reflecting with honesty, which is smart! Love your takeaway about veggies and hydration! One off day doesn’t undo your overall habits, you’re still on the right track, I am sure!

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That’s such a strong start to July, three green days and mindful choices, even after a late shift!

Love how you're using past strategies, keep the momentum going!

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Love that decluttering energy too! Wishing you a smooth drive and as peaceful a visit as possible with your friend.

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I really relate to this—you're not alone. It’s powerful that you’re choosing determination over waiting for inspiration!

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Thanks Pink! Almost 1 kilo down! :D It’s been a tough week again — I had a lot of trouble with low blood sugars, which meant I had to do quite a bit of correcting. So I had to eat here and there, but I still marked the days as green. I didn’t eat out of hunger or craving, it was purely out of necess...

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Win, just wondering how you are doing these days!

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Amy , it’s definitely unsettling! It annoyed me too that he didn’t say anything else — just bluntly: we’re not doing anything about it, see you next year. I actually would’ve liked a bit more explanation, but I felt kind of thrown off and left the room quickly because he shut it down so abruptly. :...

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What we eat can be so misleading sometimes. :( I also tracked calories for a while, because I was losing weight so incredibly slowly that I was sure I must be eating too much. It helped to use a smaller plate, because I was eating almost the same portions as my partner — and he’s two heads taller an...

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That’s a great goal, Amy! I think we all have a weight range where we feel comfortable, and it’s good to hear that you’re working towards that! I totally get what you mean — compared to others, I don’t have that many kilos to lose either, and it goes incredibly slowly. You really have to pay close a...

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Well, it’s been a little while. I was doing pretty well with No-S, but this past weekend I had a very indulgent S-weekend with way too much food. I had a really stressful week at work with all green days, so I suspect I was experiencing some kind of delayed emotional eating on my S-days. :oops: The ...

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Hope you feel better soon!

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Being on track does feel good!

May I ask, do you still aiming for weight loss or just maintaining?

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Hi Pink, I am the same as you. It’s mentally better to have it all in front of you and not feeling deprived. It really is a struggle to find that balance between all or nothing haha.

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Interesting point about the overweight numbers. It’s really increasing all across Europe. But I was honestly shocked when we were in Orlando… Walmart even had special scooters for people with severe obesity—and not just one, but a whole row of them! We were also amazed by how huge the snack packages...

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Interesting to read about how fast your colleagues ate. I’m a fast eater too, mostly because I really don’t like it when my food gets cold. Drinking during meals also helps me feel full faster. :D I’m just like you—I get so impatient and can be totally committed to a diet choice for three days, and ...

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Oof, as soon as your routine slips, it’s so hard to stick to your eating routine too. Hopefully you’ll be able to get back on track soon!

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Thanks Imogen, Amy, and Pink for your support! Right after I posted, I decided to start watching my carbs again. My blood sugars immediately became so stable! I allowed myself to have something sweet as long as it stayed under my saturated fat limit, but wow… the math. It’s just not doable. Too much...

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Amy, thanks so much for sharing that wisdom! :D It really hit the nail on the head. Pink, I appreciate you sharing your approach! Do you plan specific S-treats for your S-days, or just go with whatever comes up? How are your S-days going lately? I still feel a bit lost trying to figure out what work...

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Amy3010 wrote: ↑
Tue May 06, 2025 5:02 am
Hi Ellis! at the moment my favorite meal is a vegan version of "asperges op vlaamse wijze" with a creamy tofu scramble on top of the asparagus

That sounds pretty good! I am Dutch myself and I have to look it up!

I hope you enjoy your trip to Paris!

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Are you me? :oops: I recognize so much of what you're writing. Always looking for "loopholes" in every diet, needing meals to be enjoyable or else you end up bingeing. And having a big appetite... sigh, it's so frustrating. I'm not particularly short, but my boyfriend is tall and I can easily eat ju...

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Hey Pink, You are indeed virtual plating! It's smart to allow yourself that cupcake and just put it on your plate! :D And I am the same, I love to observe other peoples eating habits. Not in a creepy way of course, haha. I have a very petite coworker and it seems like she can eat everything, but she...

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Oh I am so glad to hear there are more vegan options over there! I also remember the huge portions when we were in Florida. My partner and me often shared one portion, haha. What is your favorite vegan meal currently?

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Thank you, Amy, for your supportive reply! I truly appreciate it! :D You’re absolutely right — this is all part of my learning process. My health really does need to come first. That’s why I’ve been digging a little deeper into the time when I felt good in my body and was doing well with No-S. I rea...

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I feel really awful. :( Yesterday was an S-day and I ate so much that I actually felt sick. It was my partner’s birthday and we went out for dinner. I had dessert, which really wasn’t worth it, but I still ate about half of it because it was pretty expensive. When we got home, I jumped on the exerci...

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Amy, thanks for asking! It actually went pretty well! :D Did I eat a LOT? Well… yes! But it felt really good to have that mental break from the diet. I’m now tracking my weight every morning and keeping an eye on my calorie intake. I do have to be careful with that, because it can sometimes trigger ...

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Hi Amy, good to see you again here! How was your diet over at Tx? It’s good to have an extra motivation like health reasons for changing eating habits other than losing weight!

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Hi there! Just sending some good vibes here! Easter can be such a challenge with all the chocolate and delicious meals. Just keep tracking! I just started “over” again as well, day 2 and both green. Yay!

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Just sending some good vibes your way!

It’s nice to see more activity around here! Just keep tracking!

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Hi Pink. Seems like you found something that works really well for you!

Are you tracking your days green etc?

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Thanks everyone! :D It’s been a while, and since my last update I’ve switched back and forth between different diets about a hundred times. As you know, I have a few things I need to manage: losing weight, keeping my LDL cholesterol in check (by limiting saturated fats), and controlling my blood sug...

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Yeeh, things are going well with vanilla No-S! :D Today was my monthly weigh-in, and I lost 0.4 kg, which is about 0.8 pounds. It’s not a lot, but I’m happy that at least the number is going down. I accept wherever No-S takes me. :wink: What might have been even more important was my non-scale victo...

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Wednesday morning, I got curious about my weight. :oops: I decided to weigh myself. The number on the scale wasn’t what I wanted to see, but I had expected it—a higher weight. This morning, I couldn’t resist stepping on the scale again, and I weighed the same as the day before. I’m not sure what to ...

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So, the “first” (of my uncountable many attempts) vanilla No-S weekend is over, and wow, I ate a lot. It was expected—that’s always how it goes. Of course, it was a bit more challenging for my blood sugars, but I did my best. And I really enjoyed the freedom. It was amazing! :D I’m ready to embrace ...

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Glad to hear you found something that works so well for you!

small steps are good! You got this!

I was already wondering how you were doing, since we lost contact on FB! Wishing you the best and keep us updated if you like!

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I was actually pleasantly surprised regarding the meal delivery and the quality of the food. Not as much salt and saturated fats as expected. If it’s within your budget and your taste then why not give it a go? We have a saying here that goes like this: convenience makes life easier.

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