Everyday Systems

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Thanks, Soprano

Yesterday was green - Monday is usually my most consistent eating day of the week. Let's take that Monday energy forward another day!

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Thanks, Sammy and Ellis...what generally pushes me into the red zone is being at loose ends in the afternoon and evening, and then giving into urges to eat off plan. I am going to do better this week! I am tired of letting myself down.

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Way to go, Soprano!

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Aww, Ellis, I am so sorry to hear about your cat

I'm glad you found some comfort in having an S day...I hope moving forward with it this time goes well!

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After one green day, two red days...

Going for green again today!

Pre-plan:
B: o. oats
L: leftover mushroom/spinach/chickpea pilaf, cucumber
D: veg lasagna, salad
S: small serving of dessert my son made and is bringing over

Ex: strength training + walking

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First green day of the week yesterday

Pre-plan for today:
B: o. oats
L: salad plate w beans, veggies, hummus, mango
S: Nakd bar
D: tofu, quinoa, green beans, salad

Ex: strength training, biking

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Am logging yesterday as a non weekend S day... I went beyond what I had planned :oops: Back to normal programming today. Pre-plan for today: B: blueberries w soy yogurt, ground flax L: salad plate w beans, hummus, avocado, veg, kraut... S: Nakd bar D: tofu, broccoli, potatoes, salad Ex: yoga & walking

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Horrified, LOL :lol: And to think there are so many things so much more extreme than No-S... :wink: It feels so good to have a fully green week on my HabitCal, I'm going for another :mrgreen: Pre-plan: B: o. oats L: Seitan cutlet, broccoli, salad D: Amazon bowl (veg, black beans, quinoa, avocado, ma...

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Thanks, Ellis

I also love to read how other people make No-S work for them with mods. In the end it is about figuring out how to eat moderately and sanely for the rest of our lives, and this is going to be different for everyone.

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I'm glad to hear that despite the problem with your blood sugar overnight, that you were able to have a good day afterwards, and enjoy your reasonable pizza dinner - that is a win!

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You know, I used to struggle so hard between about 3:30 and 5:30 pm, when I would start making dinner. It often led to me to snacking anyway, on unhealthy crap, or eating way too much at dinner or overeating in the evenings... So at a certain point, I decided to include a healthy, planned snack as p...

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Don't be too hard on yourself, Sammy, you've been doing great, this is just a small blip. Keep up the great work and fueling your body with all the nutrients in those healthy smoothies!

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I'm glad things are going so well, Ellis! Good luck with the pizza challenge tonight - you can do this!!!

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Hi Ellis! I always plan a healthy snack, usually fruit and nuts, sometimes a Nakd bar (if I am out or at work in the afternoon). It's my one big mod :mrgreen: I have a streak of green going this week, and I do not want to blow it today. Pre-plan: B: o. oats L: leftover tofu curry, basmati rice S: Na...

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Well done on sticking to your three meals, Sammy! The smoothies sound great!

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Yes, Sammy, it will definitely be both - and we will miss the luxury of having them close by. But we are thrilled for him, it's a big opportunity. Yesterday: green! :mrgreen: Pre-plan for today: B: Overnight oats L: hummus/kraut/cucumber sandwich S: figs/nuts D: tofu curry w roast veggies Ex: biking...

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Hi Ellis! Given the challenges of your diabetes, it makes sense to adapt your eating pattern to work for you and help you keep your blood sugars under control. I am sure that you will figure this out!

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Ten days out sick, that is a bummer - glad you're feeling better and that things at work have calmed down for you, but it sounds like chemistry will keep you on your toes :wink: - good for you for giving it a go! And it sounds like on the weight/diet front you are in a good place, and listening to y...

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Hi Pink, thank you! :D Yes, lack of sleep is a huge factor in hunger and willpower... I have always struggled with ruminating keeping me awake at night, ugh. Yesterday just on the edge of green - my planned snack turned out to be different...my son just got offered a job in Paris (about four hours b...

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Mon Sept 1:

Pre-plan for today:
B: o. oats
L: salad w/ avocado, kraut, black beans, tomato, cucumber, hummus
S: figs/nuts
D: tofu "ricotta" stuffed shells w tomato sauce, salad

Ex: walk (6 km)

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Thanks, Ellis! Rabbit rabbit rabbit...first day of a new month on a Monday, and then it being September...can't get any more shiny and brand new than that :D Going for lots of green this month! :mrgreen: Pre-plan for food today: B: overnight oats L: spinach salad w tofu, tomato, avocado, cucumber, p...

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Awesome, Auto, to hear you're on such a good roll, despite the trip (sleeping on the floor in the airport, ugh!) and needing to support your husband with his new job (which I can imagine is overwhelming) and then all your own stuff you have going on. I bet you're right, not having alcohol probably d...

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Welcome back, Zeejane!

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Thanks, Auto! I am gritting my teeth to get through this week at work as team leader. The biggest thing is the way it affects my sleep - I wake up and start ruminating about all the things that will need to be taken care of, or about things that happened the previous day. Feeling like I didn't get e...

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I hear you on the wine! I have pretty much eliminated it - I will occasionally have a glass on a Friday night, or a bit more frequently when we are on vacation, but otherwise it is just not worth it to me anymore. Like you, I find it makes my resolve to not snack crumble, and fuels anxiety the follo...

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Hi Ellis - I hear your frustration and I understand feeling down and depressed about having tried everything and nothing seems to work. When I am in this place, I ask myself what the alternatives are. Just give up trying and eat whatever I want? Further restrictions? Continue on this path of moderat...

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Thanks, Ellis! Last week was all over the place (lots of red) but it made me realize how much better I feel when things are more reasonable. Being all over the place does not feel good, even though in the moment whatever it is (snack, wine) seems like a good idea. :wink: The coming week will be stre...

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An accidental green day on an S-day - this is the kind of progress that is easy to ignore, but in my opinion, this shows the habits are starting to be really ingrained. Nothing wrong with that!

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I am so sorry to hear that you regularly have to deal with suicidal thoughts, but I admire the way you have learned to manage them. And brilliant that you are going to use the same approach to dismiss binge thoughts! How are things going?

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It was good, Ellis, thanks for asking :D - we were busy with the girls and then we enjoyed our little weekend away, came back and started right back at work again. It always takes me a few days after being away to get back into my normal eating/sleeping/exercising routines, but I'm in the swing of t...

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It sounds like a good sign to me! :D If you feel like you can do this for the rest of your life, it works with your diabetes, and you are maintaining, then it sounds like this is a great foundation for you. Once you feel really solid in these basic habits, you can gently look at other small changes ...

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I hope you feel better, Pink! It sounds like a crazy busy time for you!

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I totally understand how frustrating this is for you! If you feel good on Vanilla No-S, and given that snacking is problematic for you, maybe like Soprano suggests, try tweaking the composition of your plates? Filling half your plate with salad and veggies, for example... Although I would be careful...

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Sammy, I hear how you are struggling - hang in there! Kathryn Hansen wrote a book based on Jack Trimpey's work, specifically for bingeing, which I found very helpful in the past. She also has a podcast; both are called "Brain over Binge": https://brainoverbinge.com/ Hang in there - every step, no ma...

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Great to hear!

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Like you and Auto, cutting way back on alcohol has been a big focus for me these past few years - it has such an impact on my sleep and mood. But like you, I always feel like there is something about summer and the sunny weather that calls for a glass of wine... I like your idea of aiming for a perc...

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Ellis, that is great news that your doctor is getting you on the waiting list for therapy - just following you here and hearing how much your Type I weighs on you, I can certainly imagine there is a lot to unpack with a therapist. Hopefully it doesn't take too long! Yes, to Mr. Ellis and his encoura...

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It was fun (they are super enthusiastic young ladies) but yes, definitely exhausting! So far, our staycation has been busy. We went to a music festival here in our city yesterday, today we'll spend the day with the in-laws. My SIL found a fort from WW1 we are going to visit. This will include a picn...

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Sounds like a perfectly lovely day!

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Thanks, Soprano and Ellis, we are! Bowling, shopping and dinner out again yesterday - but a solid green day! We were so busy all day, no time to even think about extra nibbles sneaking in. And there were just two portions of the leftover homemade dessert, so I didn't have to disappoint them by not p...

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Holidays are always a tricky time...well done on no gain!

Feeling yucky from the food while away makes it good to get back home to normal programming.

Wishing you success with being more mindful about carbs on your upcoming trip - and enjoy yourself!

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I think having that space each week where it feels like a relief to be rule-free is crucial in making it possible to stick to moderate habits long term. Hang in there! And congrats on the loss!

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Yes to this: being able to break the mindless eating sequence even for a moment is a big deal...it really is!

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That's great news about the new job! And well done on handling the craziness - yes, I've noticed that too, that good things can trigger unhealthy habits

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Second day with the girls visiting: 3 one plate meals (for dinner we did a "make your own wrap" buffet at home, so virtual plating), a serving of dessert the girls made, and one small cookie with a coffee out and a praline with our tea, so not green, but happy that it was quite reasonable for having...

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Ugh that heat!

Good for you for getting out for a walk regardless!

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Nice! Always good to celebrate small wins like this - well done!

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Happy Birthday, Ellis! My thoughts on your question align with Soprano's...S-days are a rule-free time where you learn to eat moderately in a way that works best for you, while still enjoying the occasional treat. In the beginning, it is common to go overboard and have wild S-days, but as time goes ...

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Thank you! We had a good first day with the girls - we started a huge puzzle and I am teaching them embroidery... I also took a non-weekend S day, because we went to a very special bakery here and let the girls pick out dessert (my oldest son and his wife were coming over and it is the bakery they u...

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It sounds like you have a solid plan and lots of support from your dietician and husband, which is great!

And focusing on the habit is an excellent strategy, just hang in there with it - you got this!

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Anna Lembke, right? I have heard her on podcasts as well, and read Dopamine Nation, such an eye-opening book. I know what you mean about her being a warm, expressive person. What is the workbook like? We lived in Alabama (Florence and Mobile) when I was a little girl and I do remember the heat...han...

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Thanks, Soprano and Auto...

Green on my HabitCal, at last...

The girls arrive later this morning. I may or may not have time to pop in here the next few days, but I wish everyone good green days in the meantime!

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Wow! That is a huge victory! Well done!

Just the fact that you took the time to pause before diving into soothing yourself with food... and then the pause gave you the opportunity to mindfully consider exactly how you felt, and exactly what you needed. Awesome!

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Getting stuff done and crossed off the to-do list is the best feeling. Not to mention combined with a good eating day!

I hope the tuition bill wasn't too much of a shock.

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So nice that the yoga really hit the spot! That is a great feeling

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I think you hit the nail on the head, Pink - we all know how to work super hard (any restrictive diet basically), but finding the sweet spot of working medium hard is elusive. No-S is a good tool and training program for finding that for ourselves, I think, but it is still challenging to stay consis...

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So nice to hear things are going well for you!

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Thank you! We do have some things planned, aside from the girls coming and our little three day mini trip, we are going to some concerts here in our town (there is always a lot going on here in the summer, which also makes it nice to stay at home), spending a day with my SIL, going out to dinner wit...

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First day of two weeks off work :D The nice thing about being off work but not traveling is that I have time to go take a class at the yoga studio with my friend this morning. Plan for today: Ex: yoga, biking B: blueberries w/ soy yogurt, oats, walnuts L: hummus/kraut sandwich, cucumber slices S: pl...

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Oh no, the pool! :( Sorry to hear about that. But it sounds like you are establishing some structure/habit to your meals during the day? And an evening without ice cream, first time in a long while, also sounds good! Steps like that are moving you in the direction you want to go, hang in there! I ca...

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My middle son read all the Wheel of Time books and we have them here at home still! I can relate very much to your weight range theory. If my weight is trending over 70 kg (154 lb) it is because I am overeating. Eating "normally" keeps me hanging out just under that, 68-69 kg, without thinking about...

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Thanks Pink and Ellis :mrgreen: Had what felt like a lot of food yesterday - I had a night shift for my volunteer work on Friday, and that always turbo charges my appetite the next day, especially for carbs. Very early am (at volunteer gig): tea with 3 cookies B: croissant w/ jam, bread roll w/ slic...

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Well done on your fully green week, Ellis! :mrgreen: And I'm glad you were able to enjoy your S day to the full without beating yourself up about it! Indeed, I suspect a lot of us who have been dieting for years have body dysmorphia to some degree... In a way, I think it's quite normal to have a dif...

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Hoo boy, good luck with the driving - a big new frontier out on the highway! Really interesting observation about how differently you felt after having the whole milk with your granola and coffee. I usually use soy milk which has a lot more calories/protein than oat or almond milk. Your book club so...

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Well done on pre-planning and focusing on the habits!

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Thanks Sammy and Pink! Third green day in the books and now it's the weekend... :mrgreen: Yes, am 95% vegan :D - I practice the same approach as with No-S: consistency instead of perfection. At home I don't have any problem, it's eating out or when invited to other people's homes that is sometimes t...

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Thanks, Soprano!

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Two green days in a row and on track for a third one!

Pre-plan for today:
B: blueberries w/ soy yogurt, oats, flax
L: hummus/kraut sandwich, sliced tomato
S: 2 plums, 2 Brazils
D: tofu, salad plate

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The site seems to be working fine this morning (European time)...fingers crossed!

Ellis, well done on your green days! That's awesome. Be very wary about tripping yourself up by adding more rules...

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I am very impressed with your Pilates habit - do you find it helps a lot dealing with other things to get that in every day?

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Hope your plan went well!

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Oh, I hope book club went well! Social eating situations can be so tricky. But it sounds like you have good motivation to stick to what you planned!

What book did you read?

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Aww, thanks Soprano and Pink, I'm glad it made some sense to you :wink: It was super busy at work today, and my SIL is being passive-agressive about a get-together we are trying to plan for the family, so I was feeling frustrated and knew walking home from work that I would need some extra support t...

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Sounds like you have a good solid day planned out - I hope it went well!

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Hi Pink! Yes, very much a normal day for me - I stuck to my pre-logged meals, except changed the risotto to pasta (my neighbor stopped by at 5 and stayed to talk for a while, which meant I didn't have enough time to make risotto...) and my meals were all one-plate. So I feel good about that. Pre-pla...

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Thanks Pink and Linda! It did feel so good to just have normal one plate meals today. It really does not feel good to eat at night - food hangovers are the worst :roll: I did in the end take an S day for our national holiday, because in the afternoon, we went to my friend's house (her husband just r...

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Well done, Pink! Planning your food out in advance and pre-logging it is a great strategy!

I also agree that certain foods, like sweets and refined carbs, can trigger more hunger.

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A good, mellow day...that sounds wonderful

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Oh, wow, Linda, that sounds like a really challenging friendship...you seem to be incredibly patient with her, despite it being so draining. Glad to hear you got your peace back and had a good day afterwards. Going to a jazz club sounds like great fun!

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I lost my reply to you here as well, a couple hours ago...the site was working really slowly. Attempt #2: It is crazy how easily bad habits like nighttime snacking can creep back in! :oops: It sounds like there are a few of us here who really need a good solid green week this week. Let's do it! :mrg...

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Thanks, Soprano! I agree 100%

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Yes, so true what Soprano says! Our "diet brains" will always try to negotiate about the fine print and try to trip us up in the little details, where it's the day-to-day consistency over time that really makes a difference. Like you, I am going to be focusing on just getting basic green this week. ...

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Thanks Linda, Ellis, and Pink :) Habit can be such a powerful force, for both good and bad. Yesterday we had the kids and their partners over for bbq - aside from the food, there were nibbles, there was wine, there was dessert, and I ate a lot more and a lot later than I normally would. I am feeling...

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I realized something about my habits this week: it was a stressful week, because it was my turn at work to be in charge of the team. Which translated into a fully red week on my HabitCal (mainly due to snacking). However, I noticed a couple times that I would sit down to my one plate at a meal, alre...

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You can do this, Sammy, one day at a time...I see the day you struggled, you also got in over 10k steps...that's a lot of movement! Maybe worth looking at Pink's suggestion to make sure you have enough to eat at your three meals?

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Welcome, Candace!

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Holding at BMI 25 is something to give yourself a big pat on the back for, Pink! And fitting into your clothes, huge non-scale victory! :mrgreen: Well done! I hear you on the driving - I taught all three of my boys to drive, which was hugely stressful. I still get nervous sometimes with the two youn...

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I'm with Linda! No need to feel like this is an obligation in any way - come here and track, or vent, or just get support, whatever feels like it helps the most right now

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I do the best I can to eat what would be a normal, one-plate meal for me (virtual plating if necessary), and I try to focus on enjoying the company and not worrying about the food. I never take food home with me. I always try to remind myself that being moderate and consistent most days at home is m...

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Congratulations!

A solid green day in the bag! Keep taking it day by day and don't punish yourself if you have a red day - mark it and move on.

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Thanks, Ellis!

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I love your Petsmart description!

The only thing I would add is to take them out for at least one good walk every day.

I hope Creator's feeling better soon - it sounds like the home cooked stews are soothing to his system!

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Aside from the food poisoning, sounds like it was a great vacation, and you're now in a good place with your food and exercise routines!

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Just focus on working towards vanilla No-S in the beginning- it doesn't even have to be perfect, just better than you are doing now. Hang in there!

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Welcome back, Sammy...I hear your frustration and desperation. It sounds like you've got some good support in place, with your dietician and therapist. Hopefully with their support and the No-S structure, you can get to a place where you feel better soon. We will cheer and encourage you along the way!

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Thanks, Pink

Have a good weekend, everyone!

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100 days! Woo hoo! :mrgreen: And kudos for experiencing your stress (what a day!) without reaching for something to numb it out. It was when I started cutting back on alcohol that I started noticing that when I did have it, it really triggered anxiety, not only in the middle of the night, but the n...

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Auto, Pink, routines can be so great :mrgreen: No more decision fatigue! I also have the same breakfast every day during the week (overnight oats), and pretty much the same lunch most days. I worked the evening shift at work yesterday (til 8pm) and when I got home, had my one plate late dinner and d...

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So great that you have taken the time to reflect on what has not been working and what would actually be really sustainable for you! By taking your own preferences and patterns into account you can craft a healthy eating routine that works for you without it feeling like such a struggle to maintain....

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I was a 2-cup per day coffee drinker for years, but I had to cut back to 1 cup when I hit perimenopause and started having trouble sleeping and more anxiety. It does seem to help, even though it really made me sad to let it go. I replaced the second cup with a cup of green tea, after lunch. Not the ...

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