Having trouble, advice needed!
Posted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 9:25 pm
I was doing really well but hit a tricky patch and need sone advice/support to help me get back on track!
After more than a year of trying to get pregnant with our second child and no success I've been getting a bit fed up and my husband thinks we should go to the GP and ask for help.
I am reluctant to do this although I know it's nessecarry because I know my GP will refuse to help because of my weight. To access any assistance with fertility in the UK your BMI must be below 29 and mine was 32 a few months ago.
Firstly I'm not keen on the humiliating aspect of going along to my Drs surgery with my lovely husband only to be put on the scales and told it's all my fault that we can't have another child. Just thinking about this scenario is putting me out of sorts and making me feel horrible about myself.
Secondly, it's woken the diet head monster within, so I wake up in the morning wondering how I can modify No S in order to get my BMI down to 29 asap, only to spend the day overeating, snacking and making less than positive food choices!
I did so well for over a year and can't believe ive got in such a pickle over this issue. I just want to find food peace again, and get back into the slow weight loss zone. The way things are at the moment the only way my BMI is going to move is up![Sad :-(](./images/smilies/icon_sad.gif)
Suggestions and advice welcome!
After more than a year of trying to get pregnant with our second child and no success I've been getting a bit fed up and my husband thinks we should go to the GP and ask for help.
I am reluctant to do this although I know it's nessecarry because I know my GP will refuse to help because of my weight. To access any assistance with fertility in the UK your BMI must be below 29 and mine was 32 a few months ago.
Firstly I'm not keen on the humiliating aspect of going along to my Drs surgery with my lovely husband only to be put on the scales and told it's all my fault that we can't have another child. Just thinking about this scenario is putting me out of sorts and making me feel horrible about myself.
Secondly, it's woken the diet head monster within, so I wake up in the morning wondering how I can modify No S in order to get my BMI down to 29 asap, only to spend the day overeating, snacking and making less than positive food choices!
I did so well for over a year and can't believe ive got in such a pickle over this issue. I just want to find food peace again, and get back into the slow weight loss zone. The way things are at the moment the only way my BMI is going to move is up
![Sad :-(](./images/smilies/icon_sad.gif)
Suggestions and advice welcome!