sld daily checkin

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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sld daily checkin

Post by sld » Wed Nov 05, 2008 1:49 pm

11/04
day 1

success! :D :shock:

I think I did good - any feedback will be greatly appreciated!

During the day I stayed away from regular soda and the snack machine...breakfast and lunch were proportional (I actually shared some of my H french fries at lunch and didn't feel like a failure for doing so!). I did have a protein water drink late in the afternoon - no sugar added, so I think it was ok.

Made it to the gym after work, took D along for giggles and company. Focus was on weight training large muscle groups: legs, back, chest and abs. Did 20 min cardio on bike.

No snacking before dinner! Yippee! I wanted to, D and H having chips while dinner cooked. It woulda been sooo easy to reach over and grab a few (handfulls) chips.

I instead had a sugar free instant coffee drink, deciding to put a few of those chips on my dinner plate. (no stacking, actual space on the plate) It helped in that I didn't just over eat chips and I didn't feel like I was depriving myself.

And...no snacking after dinner! Yay! I did have about 6 oz of diet soda.

I told H of NO S - he wasn't terribly supportive. But... in his defense, he's seen me struggle first trying one thing and then another. "Just eat less" he says - "no biggee." Ummm... well... yeah.... but if it really was such a no biggie then I wouldn't be such a biggie. I'm doing it for me, tho, that's what is important. I have to believe in me first before anyone else can - and he's seen me not succeed so much that I can't really "blame" his attitude. Still woulda been nice to hear some encouragement...

I went to bed feeling good -- like I said before, I think I did ok...I know I felt ok. :)

Sherri

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hang in there

Post by turtledove » Wed Nov 05, 2008 9:00 pm

Hi Sherri, I'm really too new to this to be able to say anything profound. But I think you will feel really good about yourself if you stick with it. The beauty of the plan is that it's more of a philosophy than a system of self-punishment. So hang in there and believe in yourself and take care of yourself. Best wishes from Turtledove.

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Re: hang in there

Post by sld » Thu Nov 06, 2008 1:19 pm

turtledove wrote:Hi Sherri, I'm really too new to this to be able to say anything profound. But I think you will feel really good about yourself if you stick with it. The beauty of the plan is that it's more of a philosophy than a system of self-punishment. So hang in there and believe in yourself and take care of yourself. Best wishes from Turtledove.
Thanks Turtledove!

Best wishes to you too! Just knowing that there are others out there that are understanding is very validating and helpful.

Sherri

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Post by sld » Thu Nov 06, 2008 1:39 pm

11/05
day 2

No S
exercise


I did good during the day, instead of hitting the snack machine at 3, I sipped a cup of black tea.

Dinner wasn't terribly healthy as H and D ordered pizza, but I only ate 3 small slices that fit on my plate - no seconds!

Not snacking proved to be more of a problem, as I was wanting to go peruse the cabinets for something...I had to really "stop" myself at least twice.

Exercise was good. It was a treadmill day. I did a 3 min walk warm up and then jogged for 1 mile, walked for half a mile and jogged the final 1/2 mile to reach 2 miles total. The first mile felt ok; but the last 1/2 mile jogging I really had to push it. At first I thought, ok I'll do this, then I started thinking I'll only do 1/2...then when I reached that I thought I could do another 1/2...then when I reached that I pushed myself to finish out the entire distance jogging.

I'm not a runner - never, ever have been. A friend turned me on to "chi running" and it really is helping me...what I've read so far anyway. :oops: I need to keep reading...

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Post by sld » Fri Nov 07, 2008 1:54 pm

11/06
day 3

no s
exercise


ugh... :(

I did good all day, but when I got home from work I went straight for a snack.
Chips. They had been calling my name all week and I just gave without even a real thought to what I was doing.

Then, on top of that - I made it worse by not going to exercise.

Double ugh :(

I was frustrated when I got home cos D wasn't ready to go to the gym, had not completed her homework assignments - so I decided to wait on her. The longer I waited, the more frustrated I felt - till I found myself eating chips. (to clarify: she hadn't completed her assignments because she hadn't tried...it wasn't that she had a large work load; she could have had it done and ready to go by the time I got home)

At least I cut my dinner portion back because of the pre dinner snack.

So...what could I do different next time?
Not wait on D. If she isn't ready, then she stays home to complete her assignments, while I go to the gym. Work out my frustrations at the gym and then come home to make dinner. (After all, it's not her fault that I ate chips and didn't exercise - I ALLOWED my frustration with her to overcome me. )


And...todays a new day...

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Post by sld » Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:38 pm

11/07 friday day 4
no s

I had a snack after work, before dinner. I figured this would happen - dinner wasn't till after 7 pm and I was starving...

exercise no planned exercise

11/08 saturday day 5
s day
although, I did very well, no snacking, no sweets...
I did have mashed potatoes at dinner. My treat was Killians beer with dinner.

11/09 sunday day 6
s day
did good again, I had 5 cookies...yummm...

Starting a new week...today's going to be a good day!

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