Lizbeth's Daily Check In

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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Lizbeth's Daily Check In

Post by Lizbeth » Thu Aug 10, 2006 1:02 pm

I love the No S concept. I've tried many diets to maintain a healthy weight. I did lose weight, and have managed to keep it off for a few years, but it's a constant struggle. I always go back to my regular way of eating, and my weight starts to creep up again. It's never more than a few pounds, but I don't want to think about it anymore. I just want something I can sustain. So, I'll give this a go. See if it can work for me. My first goal will be the 21 Day Club. Today is August 10 (but it's only morning yet).

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Post by Lizbeth » Fri Aug 11, 2006 9:59 am

First day yesterday - success!

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Post by Steve » Fri Aug 11, 2006 3:13 pm

Welcome and congrats on your first successful day! See how easy it is? :)

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Post by david » Fri Aug 11, 2006 3:38 pm

Keep it up! You'll be rewarded.

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Post by Lizbeth » Sat Aug 12, 2006 10:48 am

Thanks for the encouragement. Much appreciated.

Friday - Success (and I had friends over for the evening)

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Post by Lizbeth » Sun Aug 13, 2006 12:39 pm

Day 3 - Saturday was an S day, but I still didn't snack after dinner. That's cool.

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Post by operababe » Sun Aug 13, 2006 6:46 pm

Welcome Lizbeth! Looks like you're doing great with No S, congratulations on your success so far!
It's time to make it beautiful.

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Post by gratefuldeb67 » Sun Aug 13, 2006 7:27 pm

Welcome Lisbeth!
This plan is totally optimized for weight maintenence...
It should be perfect for you!
Give it your best shot and good luck..
Peace and Love,
8) Deb
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Post by Lizbeth » Mon Aug 14, 2006 11:34 am

Thanks Operababe and Gratefuldeb. It's great to be here.

Day 4 - Sunday was an S day. S days really don't feel as great as No S days. I had terrible heartburn last night. I didn't even eat a lot, but I did eat later in the evening. I'm glad today is Monday and I don't have to think "Do I, or don't I".

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Post by Lizbeth » Tue Aug 15, 2006 10:42 am

Day 5 - Monday - Success!

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Post by Lizbeth » Wed Aug 16, 2006 10:19 am

Day 6 - Tuesday - Success!

I must retain water when I eat junk because my clothes are fitting better after only a few days.

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Post by gettnbusy » Wed Aug 16, 2006 5:23 pm

Congrats on the clothes Liz.... YAY! Keep on goin girl.
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Post by Lizbeth » Thu Aug 17, 2006 12:31 pm

Thanks Christi. Back at ya!

Day 7 - Wednesday - Success!!! Whoo hoo, one week in!

And last night my husband, who forgets, brought me home a Twix bar. They're my favourite. I am happy to say, it is sitting in my fridge, waiting for an S day.

All is well.

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Post by operababe » Thu Aug 17, 2006 1:22 pm

Lizbeth,

You are rockin' when it comes to No S! That's a big deal, letting that Twix bar sit in the fridge until an S day. You are in control, you are using food for what it's meant to be: fuel for your body!
It's time to make it beautiful.

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No Twix?

Post by gettnbusy » Thu Aug 17, 2006 3:53 pm

Wow... that was a big step! hard to resist your faves right in front of you. I salute you for making the choice to do what is better for you than what FEELS better right now. Babe is right and controlling your choices is the key, huh? YAY for you Liz!!
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Post by Lizbeth » Fri Aug 18, 2006 10:36 am

It's true, every time I open the fridge and see that chocolate bar I feel that I am in control.

Day 8 - Thursday - Success.

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Post by gettnbusy » Fri Aug 18, 2006 4:49 pm

My illusion of control is so nice to hold onto! Tee hee hee. But so far, so good! Keep it steady my friend.
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Post by Lizbeth » Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:02 am

Day 9 - Friday - S-Day (my birthday)

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Post by gratefuldeb67 » Sat Aug 19, 2006 1:00 pm

Happy Birthday Lisbeth!!!
Enjoy your weekend!
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ps.. Is the twix bar still there??? :wink:
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Post by gettnbusy » Sat Aug 19, 2006 4:56 pm

Happy Birthday!!!Enjoy!WooHoo!
:P
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Post by Lizbeth » Sun Aug 20, 2006 8:08 pm

Day 10 - Saturday (S-Day)

Had a great B-day on Friday. Although it was an s-day, cake and a beer were my only extras. What a classy dame. The Twix bar waited until Saturday. I really feel better on my N Days than my S Days. My stomach really likes three clean meals. But its still good to know that I have weekends to do whatever I want.

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Post by gettnbusy » Mon Aug 21, 2006 4:44 am

Yay! Glad your birthday went well! Did the Twix bar taste as good as you remembered it? I hope it didn't :) LOL that way the temptaion next time (which you resisted succesffuly WOOHOO) will not be so great. Pretty soon we'll all be periodic candy bar eaters instead of compulsive ones!
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hi

Post by anna » Mon Aug 21, 2006 5:51 pm

Hi Lizbeth,

Well done with the Twix bar, it wouldn't have survived two hours in this household. But it wouldn't necessary have been me who ate it :wink:

I agree with you that it feels better not to snack, don't know why I messed up myself today. It would be really nice to hold on to that feeling when a snack attack comes up.

You are doing really well, keep it up!

:) Anna

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Post by Lizbeth » Sun Aug 27, 2006 8:19 pm

Visited with family for a few days this week. Tuesday was a success, Wednesday was not, and Thursday was also a success. Friday I was home again, but it was not a successful day. I have a really hard time on Fridays because I'm usually so tired. Why do I want to eat when I'm tired? Anyway, I don't feel totally out of control. I'll just jump right back in and start over tomorrow.

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Post by gettnbusy » Tue Sep 05, 2006 6:39 pm

Good idea!
I had that conversation with my friend this weekend. Just start right over. hopefully the string of "right-on" days is longer each time we fall down so our sucess override our failures. But, we ARE flawed and LEARNING. And you are doing great.
Best wishes this week.
Hope your holiday went well. Any twix bars? :D
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Post by pangelsue » Tue Sep 05, 2006 10:05 pm

You are doing just great. I find that schedule changes, like visiting and birthdays etc. are fun but they can get me off schedule. Forgive yourself and move on. I like to keep score like 5 successes and 1 failure sort of thing so I know I am mostly on.
A lot of growing up happens between "it fell" and "I dropped it."

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Post by Lizbeth » Wed Dec 06, 2006 9:44 pm

Ok, so it's been ages since I've checked in. Fortunately, I haven't let myself get totally out of control, and I'm still hovering around the same weight. But it's Christmas time in my house, and I know I need a plan or else ...... so I will enjoy my Christmas goodies on the weekends when I'm doing my Christmas visiting, instead of everytime I walk past the deep freeze which seems to be the emerging pattern. Wish me luck.

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Post by gettnbusy » Thu Dec 07, 2006 1:39 am

Good luck and you are right - FAIL to PLAN and you PLAN to FAIL.. SO PLAN girl... PLAN!!

Nice to see you back :)
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Post by Lizbeth » Fri Dec 08, 2006 1:07 pm

:D Yesterday was my first full day back to No "S" officially. It was great. I had three decent sized, healthy, balanced meals and I was not hungry in the evening. Not that hunger is usually my problem; my problem is that I just like snacking in the evenings. Anyway, it was easier not to snack last night. I loved Mada's idea in other post about baking something special for the weekend. I also love to bake and have lots of friends and coworkers who would enjoy the leftovers. I think a really nice desert to follow Sunday dinner would be something to look forward to. I think I'll try that in the New Year, since right now I have a Christmas party or something every weekend which will offer plenty of opportunities for a treat.

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Post by Lizbeth » Mon Dec 11, 2006 12:41 pm

I love the start of a brand new week. My s-days this weekend were very festive and I'm actually looking forward to five n-days in a row.

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Post by gettnbusy » Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:22 am

Going good?
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Post by Lizbeth » Thu Jan 11, 2007 4:03 pm

AAAGGGGHHHHH! I'm so frustrated. I'm shocked at how little control I feel I have over my own actions. Why, when I tell myself I'm not going to do something, do I proceed to do that very thing. Well, I totally didn't do No-S over the holidays. Now I feel like a failure because each day I say I'm going to start again I mess it up. AAHHHGGGG!

Ok, now that I have that out of my system, I'm starting again. It's January 11th. I hate not starting things on Mondays, but it has to be today. If I can make it to January 31st, that'll be 21 days.

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Post by Lizbeth » Mon Apr 16, 2007 2:49 pm

It's April. My all or nothing personality kicked in again in January. As soon as I slip up, I'm done. Why am I like that? I didn't entirely throw caution to the wind. I do whatever I want for a little while, then start some other stupid plan that I'm bound to fail. Anyway, here I go again. Back to something sensible. I'm not even trying for 21 days. I'm going to see how many days this month I can do this, and then try to beat it next month. No point trying to reach perfection right from the start. Wish me luck!

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I'm back!

Post by Lizbeth » Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:44 am

I haven't been here for a long time. In fact, I checked my posts, and it was April 2007. There was only one check in. In December of 2007 I gave birth to my daughter, and in 2010, my son. Four more years and here I am again. This is still the most sensible option to me, but I'm having trouble doing it. I thought being on the forum might help, so let's see how this goes. I'm going to try for a 21 day streak.

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Post by eschano » Mon Aug 18, 2014 8:35 am

Welcome back!
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July 2012- January 2016
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Post by Lizbeth » Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:05 am

Day 1 - Success. Yay!

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Post by r.jean » Tue Aug 19, 2014 2:02 pm

If u do not make the 21 days, do not be discouraged. I rarely go 21 days without a red. I have lost over 50 lbs. I just seek to keep the reds to a minimum rather than try to be perfect.
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Post by Lizbeth » Tue Aug 19, 2014 3:22 pm

Thanks r.jean. I really appreciate your taking the time to give me some advice. Just the support I need right now.

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Post by Lizbeth » Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:50 am

Day 2 - Success

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Nice job! You can do this!

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Day 3 - Success

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On a roll!
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Post by Lizbeth » Sat Aug 23, 2014 12:53 am

Clearly I'm numerically challenged. I started this Monday.

Day 5 - Success

Cant even guess what the weekend will bring. I have no feelings about it either way right now. I'm meeting a friend for a 60 min run in the morning, so that's a great start to the weekend.

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Post by Lizbeth » Mon Aug 25, 2014 11:15 am

The weekend is over. Back to n days. I'm actually happy to be back to n days. They feel better. My s days were no worse than any given day before I got back to no s, but definitely nothing resembling an n day. Being able to do what I wanted on the weekend makes the week ahead seem very manageable. Hope it's a good one.

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Post by Lizbeth » Wed Aug 27, 2014 12:18 am

Day 6 - S Day
Day 7 - S Day
Day 8 - success
Day 9 - success

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Post by oolala53 » Sat Oct 11, 2014 3:14 pm

Maybe not posting daily means things are going so smoothly, who cares? I hope so!
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Post by Lizbeth » Tue Nov 11, 2014 1:16 am

I'm still here. Life has been crazy. I haven't given up though. One day this will be my normal.

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Post by oolala53 » Sun Nov 16, 2014 8:40 pm

It's worth it, as long as we don't use it to bang ourselves over the head.
Count plates, not calories. 11 years "during"
Age 69
BMI Jan/10-30.8
1/12-26.8 3/13-24.9 +/- 8-lb. 3 yrs
9/17 22.8 (flux) 3/18 22.2
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