Every Day is New

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

Moderators: Soprano, automatedeating

Post Reply
everydaynew
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Nov 30, 2024 1:54 am

Every Day is New

Post by everydaynew » Mon Dec 02, 2024 12:23 am

I am an almost 50-year-old female with a lot of weight to lose. My short-term goal is to lose 50 pounds; 70 would be better. I am short, so you can imagine the frustration. I haven't really followed a diet long enough to know what works. I was looking around online at possible diets. There are so many! I came across this blog https://nosdiet.blogspot.com/2008/03/fifth-day.html. I was so inspired by her journey. I read all of her posts here and on the blog. I am sorry she isn't still posting, but I am glad she left everything available online. I haven't read the book yet, so I am just working with what I have read here. Tomorrow is Day 1. I am hoping for a GREEN day.

Amy3010
Posts: 1380
Joined: Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:48 am
Location: Belgium

Re: Every Day is New

Post by Amy3010 » Mon Dec 02, 2024 6:05 am

Just take it one day at a time - you got this! :mrgreen:

pinkhippie
Posts: 1384
Joined: Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:00 pm

Re: Every Day is New

Post by pinkhippie » Tue Dec 03, 2024 1:24 am

Welcome!

That is a good blog, I have read it a few times. Daily Check ins really help me in the beginning to stay consistent, so I hope we will see more of you here!

Soprano
Posts: 1218
Joined: Thu Mar 08, 2018 8:56 pm
Location: UK

Re: Every Day is New

Post by Soprano » Tue Dec 03, 2024 7:08 am

Welcome 😁
Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.

everydaynew
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Nov 30, 2024 1:54 am

Re: Every Day is New

Post by everydaynew » Sat Dec 07, 2024 11:31 am

Thank you all for welcoming me!

Week 1 was ....interesting. I definitely struggled to eat enough at my meals to carry me through without hunger....or maybe cravings. This week I am going to adjust my portions. Perhaps I will add more protein. I am also thinking about adding a fiber supplement in between lunch and dinner. I really struggled with the lunch/dinner time because I have a really long stretch in between. I did try to use fruit and cheese or nuts when I gave in to the hunger/craving, but I want to omit that altogether. I am hoping that either a little more protein and/or the fiber supplement will help me make it.

What I did notice is that on the days where I made it at least to lunch time without snacking is that I enjoyed my meals a lot more. I was careful to include things that I really like rather than things somebody told me was healthy because I knew I wouldn't have that candy bar or cookie or bag of chips in between. It was actually very freeing. For example, I allowed myself to add potatoes to my breakfast because I really like that. In the past I would skip the potatoes but end up eating chips later on anyway. I also added dried cranberries to my tuna because I like it. I would normally leave them out because of all the sugar, but I would end up eating a candy bar later anyway which has way more sugar than the cranberries when comparing the amount that I used. This was a huge eye-opener for me. I have been thinking very illogically about food.


Today is an S-day, and my husband is taking me out to dinner for my birthday (no children allowed... :D ) so I should have a very nice S-day.

Soprano
Posts: 1218
Joined: Thu Mar 08, 2018 8:56 pm
Location: UK

Re: Every Day is New

Post by Soprano » Sun Dec 08, 2024 6:53 am

Great that you have recognised eating what you want keeps you on track.

Hope you enjoyed your meal out. Happy birthday 🎂
Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.

Amy3010
Posts: 1380
Joined: Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:48 am
Location: Belgium

Re: Every Day is New

Post by Amy3010 » Sun Dec 08, 2024 7:12 am

Sounds like some great insight...hope you enjoyed your birthday dinner! :D

pinkhippie
Posts: 1384
Joined: Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:00 pm

Re: Every Day is New

Post by pinkhippie » Mon Dec 09, 2024 8:42 pm

Happy Birthday! It sounds like you are having some really good observations! I can definitely relate and am still working on a lot of what you shared. I hope you enjoyed your dinner out!

Post Reply