Cdfraun Daily Check In

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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Cdfraun Daily Check In

Post by cdfraun » Tue Dec 17, 2013 4:38 am

This seems a little silly to have this posting, because why would people care about my daily check in? But I have to admit that having a community makes me feel good. I've fallen in the past 2 weeks. We have been in flux and haven't had anywhere near regular meals, but I know I could have made that happen. I'm back now.

So, here we go...for the second half of December, I'm in.

Thanks for the support. Just knowing I'm not alone with this makes me feel great!

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Post by automatedeating » Tue Dec 17, 2013 9:52 am

The check-in is really just for you! But it is fun how we all tend to browse around and chime in on other's threads. ;)

Mine has turned into a diary, almost. I feel like I'm getting free counseling!
Month/Year-BMI
8/13-26.3; 8/14-24.5; 5/15-26.2; 1/16-26.9; 9/16-25.6
8/17-25.8; 11/17-26.9; 3/18-25.6; 8/18-24.5; 10/18-23.8;
3/19-22.1; 10/19-21.8; 6/20-22.5; 7/20-23.0; 9/20-23.6; 4/21 - 25.2
6/25 - 25.8

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Post by jw » Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:23 pm

Hi cdfraun -- we all visit one another's daily pages, it can be really enlightening! And I agree with automated, this is one of the most civilized corners of the internet you'll find (apart from occasional spammers ^). Glad you have decided to start a check-in!
"The second you overcomplicate it is the second it becomes the thing for which it is a corrective." -- El Fug

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Post by cdfraun » Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:55 pm

So for December 17, I had SUCCESS! I didn't eat lunch until 3:00, which was too late by every standard. And I even had a work Christmas party to attend and a dinner out with friends. So while it felt gluttonous in some ways (my one plate at the restaurant) and the opposite in others (I was pretty hungry by 3:00), I succeeded!

I'm going to choose to stop thinking of this as difficult and start thinking of this way of eating as right and natural. I think that saying it feels hard gives it too much negative attention. Our thoughts are so important to our reality, aren't they?

:?

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Post by cdfraun » Fri Dec 20, 2013 12:55 am

OK - yesterday was successful, and today was great and then I ate 2 cookies. I will NOT let those cookies derail me. I will not! :P

So, I'm off to eat my one plate of dinner despite my little afternoon failure. :)

Yay for me! And I journey on.....

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Post by oolala53 » Mon Dec 23, 2013 9:28 pm

What we say to ourselves is very important! It's important to be accurate, though. Just saying that eating 1,000 calories a day isn't hard won't make it so.

But eating three meals a day most days of the week is quite a reasonable way to help us negotiate the mine fields of food in our culture. It's not torture and no one starves on it. These are good things to say.

Which doesn't mean it's easy. Just easier than counting calories, planning for perfect snacks, eliminating foods, following a specific diet. etc.
Count plates, not calories. 11 years "during"
Age 71
BMI Jan/10-30.8
1/12-26.8 3/13-24.9 +/- 8-lb. 3 yrs
9/17 22.8 (flux) 3/18 22.2
2 yrs flux 6/20 22
12/20/24 24.1

There is no S better than (mod) Vanilla No S

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Post by cdfraun » Fri Jan 03, 2014 4:07 pm

Today's going to be a great day. I'm working from home today and have been eating so much through the holidays that I can honestly say that I don't even feel hungry for breakfast and that is my favorite meal.

I'm also going to add my starting weight and my goal weight if I can dig my scale out of storage!

So, I like the idea of the dietary defaults and am going to give that some thought over the next few days as I try to settle back into a new work routine and the kids getting back to school after the holidays (on Tuesday).

I'm also going to begin my Couch-to-10K training today. I've already been a runner, but with all of the turmoil/moving/etc., I have lost some of my fitness level. So, I'm back at it again. The difficulty I'm working through is planning WHEN to have my three plates a day and still exercise. I have always exercised first thing in the morning before any food, but my new work/kid schedule will not allow for that. So, I will be fitting in my exercise in the afternoon.

So, let me go weigh myself....Well, I couldn't even find the scale, so I'll use my last weight from my doctor... :?

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Cdfraun

Proceed as if success is inevitable.

SW 153
CW 153 (probably)
GW 140

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Post by automatedeating » Fri Jan 03, 2014 4:38 pm

yay! These sound like some great goals and it seems you're putting together an action plan that is reasonable and doable.
Month/Year-BMI
8/13-26.3; 8/14-24.5; 5/15-26.2; 1/16-26.9; 9/16-25.6
8/17-25.8; 11/17-26.9; 3/18-25.6; 8/18-24.5; 10/18-23.8;
3/19-22.1; 10/19-21.8; 6/20-22.5; 7/20-23.0; 9/20-23.6; 4/21 - 25.2
6/25 - 25.8

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Post by cdfraun » Fri Jan 03, 2014 4:53 pm

Hey, thanks, AutomatedEating! By the way, I was just reading a post of yours about the book Born to Run. Is that the book by McDougall? I am going to check it out, but wanted to make sure it wasn't a Bruce Springsteen biography! :lol:

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Post by automatedeating » Fri Jan 03, 2014 11:48 pm

yep, it's the one by McDougall. :)
Month/Year-BMI
8/13-26.3; 8/14-24.5; 5/15-26.2; 1/16-26.9; 9/16-25.6
8/17-25.8; 11/17-26.9; 3/18-25.6; 8/18-24.5; 10/18-23.8;
3/19-22.1; 10/19-21.8; 6/20-22.5; 7/20-23.0; 9/20-23.6; 4/21 - 25.2
6/25 - 25.8

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Post by oolala53 » Sun Jan 19, 2014 9:11 pm

How's it going, cd? If you're fitting in your running rather than posting, more power to you!
Count plates, not calories. 11 years "during"
Age 71
BMI Jan/10-30.8
1/12-26.8 3/13-24.9 +/- 8-lb. 3 yrs
9/17 22.8 (flux) 3/18 22.2
2 yrs flux 6/20 22
12/20/24 24.1

There is no S better than (mod) Vanilla No S

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Post by cdfraun » Fri Jan 31, 2014 3:17 pm

Hi oolala53,

I'm still doing it! I can't say that I have many perfect days, but I'm working a Couch to 10K program again (but actually ran in a 5K race last weekend) and I'm not snacking. :)

I just don't seem to get on the website much. I'm certainly keeping busy!

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Post by oolala53 » Sat Feb 01, 2014 12:16 am

Sounds like a fair trade!
Count plates, not calories. 11 years "during"
Age 71
BMI Jan/10-30.8
1/12-26.8 3/13-24.9 +/- 8-lb. 3 yrs
9/17 22.8 (flux) 3/18 22.2
2 yrs flux 6/20 22
12/20/24 24.1

There is no S better than (mod) Vanilla No S

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