Andi's journey
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Andi's journey
Today is day two. First time I've ever tried this plan. And I've pretty much tried EVERY diet under the sun. I somehow stumbled on to this website and downloaded the book and read it completely in a day. Yesterday was a success and today is so far. Kinda glad I started on a Wednesday though.
I also started a blog about this experience. I figured by putting it out there, I'd be more accountable. This is the first time I've told NO ONE about my food plans. Not my sister, not my hubby... not my closest "diet buddies". Nothing I've done has worked long-term (and most not even short term) so I'm purposely NOT doing what I normally do. In case you want to follow along...
http://mynsdiet.blogspot.ca
I also started a blog about this experience. I figured by putting it out there, I'd be more accountable. This is the first time I've told NO ONE about my food plans. Not my sister, not my hubby... not my closest "diet buddies". Nothing I've done has worked long-term (and most not even short term) so I'm purposely NOT doing what I normally do. In case you want to follow along...
http://mynsdiet.blogspot.ca
Thanks for the welcome, Linda.
Another successful day down. It's funny.. dinner was naturally low carb (steak, broccoli and a handful of strawberries) but because I chose those foods and was not eating them because I "had" to.. they tasted delicious and it was just what I wanted. Both breakfast and lunch had been higher in carbs (pasta at both) and I think my body just craved something different. I love looking forward to mealtimes and not feeling wracked with guilt. It isn't something I've experienced in a long time.
Another successful day down. It's funny.. dinner was naturally low carb (steak, broccoli and a handful of strawberries) but because I chose those foods and was not eating them because I "had" to.. they tasted delicious and it was just what I wanted. Both breakfast and lunch had been higher in carbs (pasta at both) and I think my body just craved something different. I love looking forward to mealtimes and not feeling wracked with guilt. It isn't something I've experienced in a long time.
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Hi there Andi. What a brilliant week you are having. Stick with it. This is such a long term plan you just have to go with it I think and relax into the rhythm of 3 meals a day. Something my grandmother would consider to be obvious and completely normal. I understand your anxiety around cabs, there are so many foods we have been told to steer clear of. I feel like that about sugar. Just one teaspoon makes me feel I am going off the rails!! But how wonderful if we can eventually eat anything we like but in moderation and not under compulsion. I long for that, keep going the way you have. You will have support from all of us on the way.
Tessy
Tessy
Thanks so much Tessy. I've always believed that plans of "moderation" didn't work (I've tried WW at least half a dozen times) but really that wasn't moderation. It was counting every last point and spending so much time and energy on what to eat. It's strange (and wonderful) that in only a couple of days my compulsion around food has already lessened. Part of me wonders "can it really be as simple as this"? but I'm just not going to stress about it... just follow the simple rules. I am a little nervous about the weekend since I've read through posts and most people trip up there. But I'm just going to listen to my body. Without really feeling deprived, perhaps I won't have the usual response of wanting to go eat every "bad" food in sight.
First S weekend
Yesterday was another SUCCESS. Now for the weekend. This morning I made an egg/pasta concoction and had coffee. Meant to go to the gym but got derailed. Had a couple pancakes with my kids a couple of hours later. Definitely already eaten more than I usually would. I need to stay conscious of what I'm doing!!!
Yesterday was a success. Today marks the last day of my first week. I didn't love the S days as much as I thought I would. I like having more structure. I am going to try stick to the rules as a base and mix it up with one thing per day like a dessert after a meal. Not dessert after EVERY meal and as a snack. Just made me feel yucky. My appetite seems to be more today but I'll just stick to the rules and go about my life.
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Well done on completing your first week Andi. You have made a brilliant start. I hope your dessert idea works for you. I cannot have dessert or I would eat it all and more. But I do try and always have fruit it just has to fit on my plate with everything else. I find I have to stick to vanilla noS, it is the rules and regularity I need. Good luck for next week.
Tessy
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I meant only having dessert on S days... certainly not every day. I have one or two servings of fruit on N days and that is my "sweet". Also one cup of coffee in the morning with a teaspoon of sugar. But I certainly went overboard on the weekend. Had chocolate chip pancakes with breakfast and then had a mocha at Starbucks and then nibbled on dark chocolate in the afternoon. Had a DQ Blizzard on Sunday.... way too much sweet for one weekend. I need to figure out how to balance that part out. But it gives me a good starting point.
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Yesterday was my first FAILURE. I was doing really well all day. Went to meet friends at a restaurant for dinner and avoided all appies but then.... my meal came with dessert (ice-cream made at the table with nitrogen... very cool) and I ate it because it was there. Wasn't even special. I know I wouldn't have ordered dessert but felt obligated because it came with it. Very lame excuse. Just because something is essentially free doesn't mean you have to eat it!!! So.. today I review the lesson learned and move on. I am going to be much more careful this weekend (more judicious with my S use) and hopefully that will negate any damage done by the small bowl of ice-cream.
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Hi Andi,
Just saying hello. I was off the boards for a few days and missed your debut. Looks like you are doing well and are getting the encouragement you can expect and appreciate from all the lovely NoSers on this board. We are a great help to each other. I am glad you joined us. S days seem to be a nemesis for all of us at least for a while, myself included. But if you read some testimonials you will get the long view and stick to this. The bumps will iron out and there you will be, slim, trim, healthy and at peace with food. Brilliant!
Best of luck.
Kat
Just saying hello. I was off the boards for a few days and missed your debut. Looks like you are doing well and are getting the encouragement you can expect and appreciate from all the lovely NoSers on this board. We are a great help to each other. I am glad you joined us. S days seem to be a nemesis for all of us at least for a while, myself included. But if you read some testimonials you will get the long view and stick to this. The bumps will iron out and there you will be, slim, trim, healthy and at peace with food. Brilliant!
Best of luck.
Kat
"Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn." -Harriet Beecher Stowe
Belated welcome, Andi -- I also missed your joining the board while I was on vacation, racking up a lot of moderately red days. Back on the wagon now, I am particularly happy to see you are doing a blog -- a lot of the ones on the sticky are no longer maintained. It's inspiring to see each other's progress! Best wishes!
"The second you overcomplicate it is the second it becomes the thing for which it is a corrective." -- El Fug
Thanks for the welcome, JW and Kat.. it is so nice feeling supported here! This weekend was better than last (not perfect but certainly better). I didn't have the compulsion to go run out and eat EVERYTHING. Maybe a couple extra Oreos than I really needed but that was it. Last night I ate salad with a burger on top because that's really what I craved. No sweets or starches sounded good. For me.. that is big progress. I have to remember that this must be a personalized plan. Although I "can" eat wheat on it... the truth is.. it doesn't make me feel good... even if it is "legal". I need to find a happy balance where I can have it once in awhile but not every day and certainly not back to back meals. Living and learning though... and that's the key.
-Andi
-Andi
September
So, It's been a crazy week or so with our move to a new house. Hasn't been perfect eating but could certainly have been worse. I was on plan all week and it really helps to stick to the 3 meals a day. Just makes things very simple. This month I'm trying a slight variation that I think will work better for me. Going to start my weekend at 6pm on Friday night and finish at 6pm (or earlier depending on when I start dinner... but dinner will be back to the rules) on Sunday. This allows me more leeway on Friday night when I want it the most and more structure by the end of Sunday (when I'm certainly ready for it). Will let you know how that goes.
I did get on a scale at the beginning of the month and for the first couple of weeks I've maintained my weight. Not so bad considering the move.. and that I missed over a week of normal workouts. Now I'd like to see it go down though....
I did get on a scale at the beginning of the month and for the first couple of weeks I've maintained my weight. Not so bad considering the move.. and that I missed over a week of normal workouts. Now I'd like to see it go down though....
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I feel guilty that I don't have time to read much of anything here.. my life is just crazy at the moment. I promise that when it slows down, I will. Anyway... I got on the scale today (I feel like I can live with 2-4 times a month) and was pleasantly surprised to see it down. This little plan may work!!!!