shandy's check in

Counting carbs/calories is a drag. Obsessive scale stepping is a recipe for despair. If you want to count something, "days on habit" is a much better metric. Checking off days on a calendar would do just fine, but if you do it here you get accountability and support. Here's how. Start a new topic in this forum called (say) "Your Name Daily Check In." Then every N day post a "reply" to that topic as to whether you stayed on habit. A simple "<font color="green">SUCCESS</font>" or "<font color="red">FAILURE</font>" (or your preferred euphemism if that's too harsh) is sufficient, but obviously you're welcome to write more if you want. On S-days just register that you're taking an S-day. You don't have to do this forever, just until you're confident you've built the habit. Feel free to check in weekly or monthly or sporadically instead of daily. Feel free also to track other habits besides No-s (I'm keeping this forum under No-s because that's what the vast majority are using it for). See also my <a href="/habitcal/">HabitCal</a> tool for another more formal (and perhaps complementary) way to track habits.

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shandy's check in

Post by shandy » Sat Jun 05, 2010 10:55 pm

I've done no s for 2 weeks now along with daily exercise. I did have one slip up with a late night snack so I just made that my s day. I wanted to do it for awhile before I committed myself to a daily check in. It seems totally doable, which is really an answer to prayer as I was looking for something that could fit in with my lifestyle. I did do low fat eating a few years ago and lost alot of weight but I seemed to be eitheir hungry or obsessing about food alot, I could never eat with my family and to be honest I would rather spend the money now on treats for my daughters.

I'm 5.1 ft. I've about 10-15kgs to lose. I weigh about 65kgs now, which is a bit scarey as its the same that I weighed when I was a full 9 mos pregnant! I won't be weighing myself more than once a month as weighing myself seems to send me into a tizzy of panic resulting in binge eating!

S day
Exercise - sucess

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Post by shandy » Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:40 am

Sunday
S day - Success
Exercise - 3 hour hike - success

Monday
S day - success
Exercise - failure - though will make up for it by doing double tomorrow.

Coming up to 21 days on no S - yeay!

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Post by shandy » Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:43 pm

Reached 21 days on no s!

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Post by shandy » Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:12 pm

I'm wondering if it's worth bothering posting these updates. I do the habitcal so I figure thats enough.

I need to figure out a solution for days I work facepainting at events. We don't have an official break so can often end up your lunch ends up being grazed over 2 hours, as you snatch a bite here and there. For this reason I had 2 failure days recently.

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Post by idontknow » Sun Jun 13, 2010 9:03 pm

Hi Shandy,
Well done on reaching 21 days! The habitcal seems to be keeping you on track and if that's working for you then great - you don't have to do the daily check in. I use it to reflect on what I've eaten and how my habits are working so that if I hit a difficult patch I can look back at my habits. Checking in also gives other members a chance to encourage you or offer advice - that can be very useful as they have often gone through similar issues/patterns.

Re the 'grazing lunch' issue: I often have busy days where I can't eat all my lunch at once. I decided that I will plan in advance what to eat (the equivalent to a plateful of food) and then eat it when possible. Because the food is planned I don't count it as snacking - I'm just making no S fit my life.

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Post by shandy » Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:54 am

Well after 21 days I spectacularly fell off the wagon. Alot of stress at home right now and I started having migraines - when I do I always crave sugar!
It's also TOTM etc.etc. and I just generally started feeling a bit out of control and had a few Failure days No S and exercise. On top of it all I stood on the scale and it read I'd actually gained a few pounds!!! Oh the shock and horror that after 21 days not only had I not lost weight I had actually gained! Anyways I know giving up is not a positive step so its back on the wagon I go!

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Post by shandy » Sun Jul 25, 2010 3:38 pm

I know I haven't posted for ages - normal life seems to have gone out the window!

My young, fit and active brother suffered a stroke and almost died while doing community work in India, my DD's cherished cat was hit by a car and killed, I found out a very close friend has a rare and life threatening disease - all in the space of a week!

I know I'll have this down when despite the things life throws at you, my no s way of eating isn't the first thing to go.

So no, onward and upward - climbing back on the wagon.

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Post by shandy » Thu Aug 19, 2010 11:40 am

Again I've been all over the place and struggling to get back to No S and daily exercise. Won't go into boring details but life has been really hard just recently and I cope by comfort eating. Funny how being a humanitarian aid worker in the past I've survived high stress situations without going to pieces, but when its domestic I don't handle it as well. Oh well onwards and upwards.

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Post by shandy » Wed May 04, 2011 3:01 pm

Back agan - this is the only thing simle enough to use in 'real' life.

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